Elite Divorce Coaching for High Performers
Protect Everything You've Built. Navigate Your Divorce with Strategy and Clarity.
You are used to being in control and solving complex problems. But the chaos of divorce is different. Get a proven system to protect your assets, your career, and your kids—so you can rebuild fast.
Kevin Van Liere | CEO of Rebuilders International | Author of the Rebuilders Divorce Recovery Workbook
Limited spots. All sessions are confidential.
The Real Cost of Staying Stuck
You Can't Afford to Get Stuck in the Chaos.
As a high-achiever, you are used to getting results. But the legal system and the emotional rollercoaster of divorce are designed to drain your time, money, and focus. You don't need years of open-ended venting. You need to get your head straight, protect your life's work, and secure a stable future for your children.
- Stop leaking energy into fights that don't move the outcome.
- Avoid court decisions driven by panic, guilt, or anger.
- Keep your performance at work steady while everything else shifts.
- Protect your kids from becoming collateral damage.
Left unmanaged, divorce becomes your full-time job.
The longer you operate without a clear plan, the more you spend on lawyers, the more you lose in negotiations, and the more your kids absorb the damage.
The goal: compress the chaos, make clean decisions, and move forward without burning down everything you've built.
The RIFT Process
Stop Wallowing. Start Rebuilding.
The RIFT recovery process is built for people who move fast and think clearly—once they have the right strategy. We work through Relationships, Identity, Feelings, and Thoughts in a sequence designed for speed and stability.
Most traditional coaching starts by swimming in your Feelings. We don't have time for that. We start with your Thoughts. By getting your mindset clear and focused first, we stop the reactive mistakes that cost you in court. Once your thoughts are locked in, we tackle the feelings, identity, and relationships. It’s a sequence designed for fast, tangible results.
T — Thoughts
We start here. You get clear, hard-edged thinking around money, custody, timelines, and non‑negotiables. No spiraling. No worst‑case doom loops.
Outcome: you make sharp decisions in negotiations and court instead of reacting from fear.
F — Feelings
Once your thinking is dialed in, we clean up the emotional spikes—rage, shame, guilt, grief—so they stop hijacking your day and your case.
Outcome: you stay composed in court, in email, and in front of your kids.
I — Identity
We rebuild who you are on the other side of this—so you’re not defined by your divorce or your ex. You become the steady one in the room.
Outcome: confidence returns, decisions get easier, and you stop second‑guessing every move.
R — Relationships
Finally, we rebuild how you relate—to your kids, your ex, your co‑parenting team, and eventually, new partners. This is where long‑term stability lives.
Outcome: your home is calmer, your kids feel safe, and your future relationships are built on solid ground.
About Kevin
Guidance from Someone Who Has Built the Playbook.
Kevin Van Liere has spent the last 8 years helping driven people navigate the hardest transition of their lives. As the CEO of Rebuilders International and the author of the Rebuilders Divorce Recovery Workbook, he has built the exact systems used by thousands to recover and rebuild.
Having taught at the University of Colorado and run successful businesses, Kevin brings an educator’s clarity and a builder’s discipline to your situation. More importantly, as a father of two boys, he knows that the ultimate goal is protecting your kids from the crossfire.
This isn’t about talking in circles. It’s about putting a tested playbook in your hands so you can move through divorce with discipline, composure, and a clear endgame.
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Proven Track Record
Thousands guided through divorce recovery
Structured programs, not guesswork. Clear milestones from crisis to rebuilding.
Is This a Fit?
If you are ready to stop reacting and start executing a plan, let's talk.
My work is for people who are serious about doing the work to get results. I’m not here to take your side in a rant. I’m here to help you run a clean process, protect your kids, and get your life back on track as fast as possible.
If that’s what you want, start with a short confidential assessment. I’ll review your situation and, if it’s a fit, we’ll schedule a strategy session to map out your next 90 days.
No pressure. No drama. Just a clear read on where you are and what it will take to rebuild.
What to Expect
- 2–3 minutes to complete the assessment.
- You share the essentials: stage of divorce, kids, main risks.
- Kevin reviews your answers personally.
- If it’s a fit, you’ll be invited to book a strategy session.
Everything you share is strictly confidential.